Sunday, March 16, 2008

10 tips for women on their first date

First date always sends jitters in the back and leave you with cold feet. Here are some tips to help cope with cold sweat and butterflies in the stomach.

1. Dress modestly - Wear you want something nice "Do not reveal too much of your skin. Even if you hear well, you may wish to send out wrong signals. First get to know each other, then dress like you want.

2. Manners and etiquettes - Bring your best manners and etiquettes in your purse. But do not try to be too nice. You may make a "joy ride." Be polite but about where we draw the line. If necessary use your fingernails to skin alive.

3. Avoid going to the movies - On your first date to avoid going to a movie. It kills significant amount of time, which, if properly used, can help to get to know each other. Meet over a cup of coffee or, even better, lunch.

4. Pay or Dutch - If you find for lunch or dinner, offer to pay the bill. While it is too insisting on the settlement of the Dutch bill itself the bill. It is a good label and will take you a long way. But for coffee, he insists, if you can leave it settle the bill.

5. Do not act dumb - If you are bubbly and smart not to put up a facade of being intelligent or less silent for fear of frightening away. If your intelligence carries him off scares, you are better without him. Remember never what you have to pretend 're not. That can never help. It might embarrass you at the wrong time.

6. A good listener - Pay attention to what he says. You can judge a person by his opinions, tastes, likes and dislikes. You will learn about all this, if you are a good listener. But let him tell you all, leave some surprises for a later date.
7. Do not rush - not to get carried away by his sweet talks and make plans for your first wedding date. Remember that puts his foot at its best. Like you, it is too reading dating advice for his first day.

8. Do not get drunk - I will not give a sermon on the evils of alcohol. It would be best if you can avoid alcohol. If you do not remember your limit drinking.

9. Be alert - Let your friends or relatives know where you are going and with whom. In an emergency either of you can join one another. Read between the lines and see what he is conveying. If you think it is going above and you can not manage it, just leave. Do not even bother pretending to head.

10. Stick to handshake - Handshake is allowed; do not offer a hug or a kiss. If he looks at you to kiss, politely decline, he said, "we are going to save it for our next date." That depends, however, if you want another date after all.

Happy and safe dating!

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